Physical & Emotional Abuse
Survivors of domestic violence may experience physical harm, such as hitting or pushing, as well as emotional harm, like yelling, threats, or put-downs. Abusers may threaten to hurt survivors, their children, family members, friends, or pets to gain control. These experiences can cause lasting physical injuries, stress, fear, and emotional pain.
Isolation
Isolation is a common tool used by abusers to limit a survivor’s access to help. This can include controlling who the survivor sees, where they go, or whether they can work or attend school. Survivors may also isolate themselves because of fear, shame, or concern about being judged. Over time, isolation can make survivors feel alone and trapped.
Fear and/or Self-Blame
Many survivors live with ongoing fear. They may worry about their safety, their children, or what could happen if they try to leave. Survivors may also blame themselves for the abuse due to manipulation or repeated messages from the abuser. It is important to recognize that abuse is never the survivor’s fault.
Lack of Other Options
Survivors often face barriers to leaving abusive situations. These can include financial dependence, lack of safe housing, fear of retaliation, custody concerns, or limited access to transportation and childcare. Cultural, religious, or community pressure may also make it harder for survivors to seek help or leave.
Discrimination
Survivors may face discrimination or mistreatment when interacting with law enforcement or service providers. This can be due to a number of factors such as but not limited to, race/ethnicity, gender, sexuality, or immigration status.
